
My mom is fun. Period. Some of my favorite things to do with her/memories of her: spitting corn at each other at the dinner table, spitting M&M's at each other across the room, teaching her "I like big butts and I cannot lie" song, knocking chocolate out of each others hands during church (we had several years where it was just the two of us at church together--Heather was at college and my dad was doing his church calling), making her laugh so hard that her stomach hurt, sitting on the floor to talk to her about every date or event, having her as my escort at the temple, yelling "You go girl!" at the top of her lungs while the audience was silent right before my solo in an acapella group, and the list could go on and on and on....
She is an awesome Nana. She loves Isaac--and Isaac loves her. My mom has come out to see us (or we have gone to her) every month since Isaac was born. It is VERY important to her that her grandchildren know her and I admire this so much.
When Isaac was born, my mom came out for TWO weeks. I cannot even tell you how nice it was to have her here. Yes, it was nice to have dinner made for us just about every night, but it is just SO fun to be around her. I don't think I really "needed" the extra help of having her here the second week in all physical terms (i.e. like I was too sore, or having a hard recovery) because I look back at that time and just think about how I loved playing with her and hanging out together. (For the record: she was a HUGE help in all aspects). And when she left, I totally cried. My mom is my bestest of best friends. I call her regularly, and I tell her just about everything. She is the first person I think to call if something exciting/sad/frustrating/new happens. She has taught me how to be a mother by her example, and because of that, I love her even more.
I love you mom and I hope you had a GREAT birthday because you definitely deserve it!


3 comments:
FINALLY!!! I have been waiting for SO LONG for my tribute...having read through everybody elses over the past however long! Thank you Val, for those beautiful words. You maybe didn't think you had the words to express yourself, but you did and you touched my heart. I Love You!
Happy Birthday Sister Fink!! Valerie, your so sweet. I could always tell that you and your mom had a special relationship.. one we all hope to have with our kids!
Your mom is too cute!! :)
Do you guys live in Colorado now?
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